How Gratitude Changed My Students (and Me)

Accidents—or God-Directed Happenings? During the “shutdown,” I was teaching online for a public school. My students were high school-aged, but their developmental levels ranged from infancy to about age six. As November approached, I worked hard to plan something meaningful for Thanksgiving. I didn’t want the lesson to be religious, …

Reggie’s Sad Story – There are many causes for ADHD

Warning – the timing of my leaving the community this represents leaves this story without a happy ending. I trust in God that there is one by now, but the family would not know how to find me to tell me about how God redeemed this – Reggie, meaning counsel, …

Unlocking Logan’s Potential: A Homeschool Journey Through Learning Challenges and Breakthroughs

I met Logan when he was in high school. I didn’t get to know him deeply, but even in a short time, he and his mother left a lasting impression on me. Logan lived in a Portland suburb with his close-knit family. He had been identified as both bright and …

From Medically Fragile to Thriving: Kimaya’s Adult Life with Autism and Cognitive Delay

(All names are pseudonyms) I began my relationship with Kimaya’s family nearly ten years before she was born. Her mother, Wendy, and I became friends through a mutual connection, and we quickly discovered how much we had in common. Over the years, we supported one another through many life transitions …

The Rise in Autism: A Longer Perspective

Teaching has changed from 1976 to today… (note – all the names used here are pseudonyms) A vantage point shaped by time and experience I began training for teaching at a time when Special Education was just becoming a defined career field. Because of my age and the length of …

Attachment in the Early Elementary Years: Why Parents Still Matter Most

I recently spent a morning serving as a guidance counselor in a public school building. What unfolded with one little first grader reminded me why parental attachment matters more than peer influence — especially in the early years. I had many fun interactions with cute elementary children, but one student, …

Caden, “Favorite” student with neurological work to catch up after cochlear implants

Caden once attended public school, but his parents realized it wasn’t working for him. Caden was born deaf. No one at school noticed until third grade, when a teacher finally referred him for evaluation. After a cochlear implant and recovery, he returned to the same school—but was never referred to …

Unconscious Expectations are a Powerful Force

Mateo – unconscious assumptions bare fruit Mateo, was quite a gift from God to me. He rapidly became “my favorite student” when I took over teaching a first/second split in a private school. He was a spunky first grade guy with a quirky, nerdy sense of humor. I liked EVERY …

 “When a Smile is the Hardest Part: Helping Students Navigate Big Emotions and Social Cues”

Early Challenges with Social Cues I first met Adom when he was in first grade—a strikingly handsome little boy with a serious face. While he was mostly developing typically, it was his challenges with social cues that brought him to my attention, and ultimately gave me the privilege of working …